THE PAIN OF THE MISUNDERSTANDING

When you get grossly misunderstood and you ultimately want approval, it hurts.



I had another really bitter and aggressive post on here, that I removed...Not entertainment, but part of my real life dealings.


My original way of coping with this was to try to verbally belittle the person(yesterday) who did this to me, without all the facts. (And it really looked good on paper and in my mind) Actually I should just let it go completely.


Sounds trite, but it is beneath me to act this way.


Like anyone, I am a work in progress. I think we are all worthwhile enough to be giving a chance, whether you are the real Rockstar or the Ceo, or the Woman with a big heart that struggles to be heard.



I am not sure what definition I fall under, but it really doesn't matter.



DEFINITIONS ARE FOR SUCKERS. (E-A)



Some decisions will rock some boats...Yet you don't want to make it so personal or have one of your oldest friends say that "I lost a bit of respect in you tonight man."


I don't approve of somebody trying to verbally or physically assault me or anybody else. It gets under my skin.


Reminds me of the Affinity Triangle formula.


"Life has three component parts: affinity, reality and communication. These form a TRIANGLE---ARC. They are interdependent to such a degree that if you interrupt any one of them, you will interrupt the flow of the other two."


Esoteric but interesting.


Apparently from time to time, I am not in communication or affinity with somebody ....and THAT COMPLETELY THROWS OF OUR COMMUNICATION.....as FRIENDS or LOVERS.


I am trying to not make all of this about me....Being misunderstood....some days....is a bitch....But i will bite it and try to not retaliate and hurt somebody with words and thoughts.


RL