Synchrodestiny and Soul Mates

I am reading two books at the same time right now. "The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desire" by Deepak Chopra and "The Power To Change Everything" by Yehuda Berg. Pretty heady spiritual stuff but they do seem to be fitting into my head and soul in a convenient and yet implausible type of way.

The Chopra book is talking about being able to harness the power of coincidences to
your advantage. He talks about Quantum leaps and experiments such as the famous one where a man was in an isolated laboratory room, and when he was sexually aroused his spermatozoa isolated in a room many yards away started to react, just as energy will react at exactly the same time millions of miles across the universe. Why do inventors suddenly create a world changing invention within hours of each other at different locations around the world....because of the collective, non-local mind.

The Berg book talks about the similarities at the core between all the major religions on earth and how we are all connected. Nothing outside of us will change in terms of environment and war and crime etc...nothing outside of us will change until each of us change ourselves on an individual level and get rid of our egos and restrict our selfish desires, and learn how to share without expecting a pat on the back.

Deep stuff, but something that is very needed in my life. I need to know that my actions do effect other people. Cause and effect. If I put out the energy of love and forgiveness and sharing, I can expect better and more honest results in return. I can't force anybody to accept my embrace, help and affection though, unless they are ready. I respect other people's boundaries and I know that with the right intention, it will work out in the long run. I am seeing this daily, minute by minute. It is far from being easy and flowing yet, however, I am working on it. Meditation is a big factor in this development, and I would be lying if I said I was good at it. I am a beginner at quieting my mind and asking for help.

I could talk about some amazing changes in thinking and in a specific relationship that are taking place but I don't want to verbalize it before the real manifestation. In other words, and to not use the buzz words, I don't want to jinx anything!